This is adopted English translations of Iissiidiology. Fundamentals. Volume 3
3.0053 Your so-called «interpersonal» relationships, in their Essence, reflect not your relationships with other people, but «personally» of you with «yourself,» because you are «them,» and they are «you» — only somewhat differently interpreted by your Perception system. The main and only thing that makes sense for you in each of your external and psychic manifestations is who you are «personally,» what exactly you are doing, and as who you have the possibility to prove yourself in every defining moment in relation to each of these «interpersonal» interactions. You will find Yourself again and again not in biased estimates of the behavior of «your other selves» in the circle of «interpersonal» interactions, but in your own reactions in response to each of their impacts. The problem of relationships of most of you is that you are not able to perceive their sincere Help as a real Possibility to recognize yourself as that Uniform, slloogrently forming You, Harmonious Flow of Self-Consciousness, and only therefore, in the state of forced formal fragmentation with your «other parts,» you continuously suffer, argue, criticize, hate, blame, and kill, but always and everywhere this is only you.
3.0054 Here «blame» lies in your yet forced attachment to your own «personalities» which very strongly hinders each of you to feel a real disassociation from common subterransive external signs of «yourself» in order to realize how elusive, unstable, and temporal that ego-sympathetic connection is, which does not let you even in thoughts admit the possibility that somebody else can be also «you» simultaneously (especially, if you do not like him or her by some reason). To much degree such «all-dividing» perception of the surrounding reality exists due to the peculiar to your Focus Dynamics steady fixation on all possible ego-tendencies emerged from your unappeased desires to get low-qualitative pleasures: If you want sex, you want it «for you lascivious,» if you are happy, you are happy for «you beloved,» if you are proud of something, you should be present surely in that experience — so nice, kind, genius, lucky, special, and so on.
3.0055 Your usual «ego-perception» is still too low to give you the possibility to be honestly happy for things that do not concern you personally, to enjoy thoroughly knowing that someone else who has nothing to do with you might feel very good and joyful – that someone else you do not know is very happy. Your sophisticated «personal» ego tries someone’s positive states on your own constantly and not finding inner identical response at once activates in your Self-Consciousness those SFUURMM-Forms which are realized in such low-qualitative emotions as envy, condemnation, irritation, and a desire at least somehow to lower, diminish in the other person that positive state that you cannot experience in the given moment by some reason.
3.0056 Weak ability to conscious self-disassociation and attenuation of selfish attachments to focused by You «personality» appear only with deep absorption of the iissiidiological Knowledge, when your Focus of Close Attention starts stabilizing on the «low» Levels of Focus Dynamics of AAIIGLA-MAA- and KLOORTM-Creators (that is, the same «you» realizing through 1st-3rd karmic Channels of AIGLLILLIAA- and ORLAAKTOR-Iissiidi), and already do not stop going up due to the activation of your Self-Consciousness on more and more ampliative Levels of the second pair of IISSIIDI-Centers. That Self-fixation on intellectual-altruistic tendencies of your life creativity weakens «ego-conflict» of all psycho-mental processes and lets you perceive the surrounding World without distorting refraction of «personal» vanity and obsessive self-regard. Activation of «interpersonal» interactions with mentioned Levels already to much less degree fixates your FCA on all possible Form-factors. That lets you treat any forms (including other people) without false prejudice and farfetched criticism renitively understanding the causes of many inadequate behavior reactions.
3.0057 In the Conceptions peculiar to these Levels of Self-Consciousness, focused by You NUU-VVU-Form («physical body») loses that exceptional importance you give it, and you associate your choices to much less degree with «merely physical» existence, because you start to realize the true Sense of maintaining the high quality of your «inner» states — as the most safe and effective way of refocusings into even more universal Forms and Continuums. Then, as you get free of instigating activity of SFUURMM-Forms of the two low Centers, you will be able to equal perception of any other Forms (people, animals, plants, minerals, nature phenomena) projecting on them your own positive experience and starting to treat all your environment as a natural part of Yourself.
3.0058 Then, you will start to understand renitively that any negative reaction of each person towards you is only the result of what you in the given realizational Form do not just want to demonstrate in the similar primitive way and that creates a tensor in someone’s attitudes to you. At the same time, you realize that General Harmony of your life Flow requires in your «physical» Existence qualitatively dual interconnections providing continuous process of steady balancing in your Focus Dynamics of all the multitude of karmic interconnections, including the most primitive ones, in which you have no Interest any more. Realization of that, already not necessary for you, low-quality experience «have taken» your other particular Form-Types, which now in the same way scrupulously fulfill entrusted on them obligations in relation to you (and others!) just like you perform your own positive and altruistic roles towards them (and others!).
3.0059 Constantly trying to see in negative reactions of other people unrealized manifestations of low-qualitative motivations peculiar to yourself, you constantly improve and stabilize your Focus Dynamics on intellectual-altruistic Levels of Self-Consciousness inevitably approaching that harmonious state, where your «personal» Perception inseparably integrates with all the manifestations of your surrounding World, no matter how «unfavorable,» «unpleasant,» or «indecent» they seem to you now. As long as you are extremely divided in your Self-Consciousness with all the rest world and can interpret each of your psycho-mental connection only in the categories of «mine» and «not mine,» «personal» and «all the rest,» «advantageous» and «beneficial,» all your interactions with «others» become so complicated that you become just not capable to make right choices.
3.0060 Do not forget that by each of your choice you create mentally and strengthen sensually in own Self-Perception the Image of who you are and who you represent in the given moment of your «physical» Existence in the General Flow of Life. Being not able to perceive all the «rest» qualitative Flows of your own Life as «yourself,» you concentrate at best not on what exactly You want in every given moment of Existence (in the cognized by you multiplicity of all your realizational Forms), but on what another person wants or other people do with compulsory analysis of the possibility to benefit from the given situation selfishly.
3.0061 The less and fewer you will be able to see in something or somebody an unpleasant or hostile things for you, the faster and deeper your Perception will organize into the side of positive acceptance of any problem as a favorable possibility for your spiritual growth for increasing the activity of SFUURMM-Forms of more qualitative Levels of your Self-Consciousness. In the state of renitive Understanding of your karmic indivisibility and creative unity both with each person «individually» and with «all the rest,» your every choice in the relationships with people and your surrounding World will boil down only to determination of WHAT you need to realize inside yourselves that ONE whom you want to be. Because each of your step in the direction of own spiritual growth just cannot be bad for all the rest Flow of Life, no matter how critical or negative it is perceived by others, by Your less self-conscious Form-Types. For many of you the most effective way of stable increasing Qualitativeness of Creative Activity of Self-Consciousness is the Path of renitive Cognition and Understanding of Yourselves through those of Your imperfect Forms, who you are no longer in own self-perception (in your firm belief of «WHO YOU ARE»).